"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I need help thinking up a good approach.

theSpeculator

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In class today I was looking out into the hall when a hot chick appear. She was busy reading something and didn't notice me looking at her. Then you looked up into the class and caught me looking at her. We locked eyes for about 3 seconds. We just stare at each other. no smiles. no facial expressions. I looked away first, but it wasn't in a quick "oh no I was caught" way but slowly and calmly. Do you guys think there was a little interested?

She was wearing plain clothes and her hair was a little messy and tied back. I think that's why she didn't smile. She was probably not in her sexy flirty mood.

Luckily she was standing outside because she was waiting for her class to begin, which is right after mine. So there is a good chance I will see her again. I dont know her or ever seen her before. I would like some ideas on a good approach the next time I see her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Microphone Fiend

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you don't need a good approach, you need to open. After you open if you have a good personality you can keep the conversation going. If you're a dry sack of rice then even if i told you wut to do, she'd get bored of your lame ass and dump/cheat on youJust talk to her and stop being a punk
 

diablo

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Here's a good approach. Be sure to write this down and study it often, as it's as complicated as it is concise:

"Hi!"






(What were you expecting, something like "Hello Vanessa, the shoes you have on were made in Thailand by child labor. Indeed, I too used to be a child and knew that many like me were being forced to sit in small sweatshops making things that people with more money could enjoy. People like you - after all, you do have a lot of money, right? I need a sugarmomma and you look like you could be mine... what do you think?") No. Better to stick with something like "Hey", "Hi", or even "Hello"...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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if you see her again when you are in class and you can keep eye contact longer than her....

after class approach her and say "hey, I am trying to pay attention in there, and you keep destracting me. You can make it up to me by helping me study." ask for her # and tell her you will call her for a time and place to study.
 
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