"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I need help thinking up a good approach.

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In class today I was looking out into the hall when a hot chick appear. She was busy reading something and didn't notice me looking at her. Then you looked up into the class and caught me looking at her. We locked eyes for about 3 seconds. We just stare at each other. no smiles. no facial expressions. I looked away first, but it wasn't in a quick "oh no I was caught" way but slowly and calmly. Do you guys think there was a little interested?

She was wearing plain clothes and her hair was a little messy and tied back. I think that's why she didn't smile. She was probably not in her sexy flirty mood.

Luckily she was standing outside because she was waiting for her class to begin, which is right after mine. So there is a good chance I will see her again. I dont know her or ever seen her before. I would like some ideas on a good approach the next time I see her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you don't need a good approach, you need to open. After you open if you have a good personality you can keep the conversation going. If you're a dry sack of rice then even if i told you wut to do, she'd get bored of your lame ass and dump/cheat on youJust talk to her and stop being a punk
 
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Here's a good approach. Be sure to write this down and study it often, as it's as complicated as it is concise:

"Hi!"






(What were you expecting, something like "Hello Vanessa, the shoes you have on were made in Thailand by child labor. Indeed, I too used to be a child and knew that many like me were being forced to sit in small sweatshops making things that people with more money could enjoy. People like you - after all, you do have a lot of money, right? I need a sugarmomma and you look like you could be mine... what do you think?") No. Better to stick with something like "Hey", "Hi", or even "Hello"...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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if you see her again when you are in class and you can keep eye contact longer than her....

after class approach her and say "hey, I am trying to pay attention in there, and you keep destracting me. You can make it up to me by helping me study." ask for her # and tell her you will call her for a time and place to study.
 
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