So I'm talking to this chick on POF thru the first couple of emails. I've told her about myself and how romantic i can be... and her response is "I'm sure you are" lol .. so I say "sounds like you're doubting me" and her latest response to that is "usuallly its all talk"... How can I respond to this? I know internet talk is usually cliche but I wanna further things with this girl. How can I get her to trust me?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I need help here with this POF chick
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
In2theGame
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Her: Usually its all talkNYCJoey22 said:
You: So enough talking,... when do i pick you up so i can show you?
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Shes talking to 900 other guys at the same time, it doesnt matter, theres your advice.