So I'm talking to this chick on POF thru the first couple of emails. I've told her about myself and how romantic i can be... and her response is "I'm sure you are" lol .. so I say "sounds like you're doubting me" and her latest response to that is "usuallly its all talk"... How can I respond to this? I know internet talk is usually cliche but I wanna further things with this girl. How can I get her to trust me?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I need help here with this POF chick
- Thread starter NYCJoey22
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
Her: Usually its all talkNYCJoey22 said:
You: So enough talking,... when do i pick you up so i can show you?
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Shes talking to 900 other guys at the same time, it doesnt matter, theres your advice.