"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I need help from breaking NC

SirFratserlot

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I keep having the urges to do it. Everything was going okay until she started snapchatting me. One time she snapchatted me in one of my favorite workout shirts that I gave her after she slept with me. Everything was going great until I saw her at the bar and we avoided each other due to obvious reasons. After this, I just can't stop thinking about her and I'm sick of it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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She is trying to bait you. Don't contact. Dancing on a grave doesn't bring back the dead and that relationship is dead for whatever reason. If it were meant to work out you both would have tried harder not to break up. Note that I said "both". Relationships take work from both parties.
 

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SirFratserlot said:
I keep having the urges to do it. Everything was going okay until she started snapchatting me. O
I had the exact same incident happen to me. Don't look at it or snap back, just hit Clear.

I ended up Snapping back and we were snapping back and forth for a while. After a while, she basically fell of the face of the earth. I seriously regret ever doing that. Don't fall it for it bro hang in there!

Here's a topic from which people are going No contact, it can be motivating :up:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=160056
 

SirFratserlot

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Ya, I deleted her number and ever time I think about it, I just think of the games she played on me. What if she comes and jumps me like she has done before.
 

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SirFratserlot said:
I keep having the urges to do it. Everything was going okay until she started snapchatting me. One time she snapchatted me in one of my favorite workout shirts that I gave her after she slept with me. Everything was going great until I saw her at the bar and we avoided each other due to obvious reasons. After this, I just can't stop thinking about her and I'm sick of it.
this will make you not do it...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=2031275#post2031275

as well as this...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=2026742#post2026742


just happen to fir this sittuation perfectly hope this helps

Keep spinning,
J0504S
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SirFratserlot

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I don't get the point. If I ever find another woman the same **** is going to happen. I have trouble finding a woman here.
 

j0504s

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SirFratserlot said:
I don't get the point. If I ever find another woman the same **** is going to happen. I have trouble finding a woman here.
Bro im only saying this to help....your attitude is Sh1t....ofc you wont meet another girl....who would want to be with you with this sh1tty needy atittude...you need to be optimistic and apply what u learn...if you dont think alot of us have been in ur shoes before, your wrong...we all persavered and moved on....stop B1tching and apply the princple we are all teaching here...read those links i gave you and apply them to this sittuation, stop wolling in the poor me poor me pitty potty. BE A MAN!!! read some of the uplifting material in the DJ bible....

For your self listen to me and others
J0504S

p.s.s dont take this as an attack just a wake up call...
 
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