Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I had the exact same incident happen to me. Don't look at it or snap back, just hit Clear.SirFratserlot said:
this will make you not do it...SirFratserlot said:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Bro im only saying this to help....your attitude is Sh1t....ofc you wont meet another girl....who would want to be with you with this sh1tty needy atittude...you need to be optimistic and apply what u learn...if you dont think alot of us have been in ur shoes before, your wrong...we all persavered and moved on....stop B1tching and apply the princple we are all teaching here...read those links i gave you and apply them to this sittuation, stop wolling in the poor me poor me pitty potty. BE A MAN!!! read some of the uplifting material in the DJ bible....SirFratserlot said: