I need help fixing my bad traits and building up good ones

[Rint]

I would really appreciate it if you guys helped me destroy my bad traits. I tried one of the self improvement threads and they told me to list my faults so i will and i'd like your guy's advice on how to get rid of them.

Faults/Bad things about Rint:
-People find me annoying cause i talk too much
-My only really good jokes are peverted this is from a friend of mine who told me this
-I'm not confident enough
-I say the wrong thing often without knowing it
-I'm sensative
-I dont know what to say alot
-I have no courage
-I lack people skills
-People think i'm weird

Things i need help improving:
-Humor i want to be funny not just peverted funny
-Being cool
-Being respected by everyone
-Building rapport with people
-Being a man
-Changing my bad rep to a good one

I'd appreciate some threads or advice or maybe a good kick in the ass

 

[tr0ublemaker]

the only trait you listed that can be changed through influence of this thread is the whole talking too much/saying wrong thing and that..

think before you speak..it's simple..don't be so damn impulsive..all inteligent people brainstorm what they will say before they say it..predict the people's reaction before you say it..

the other stuff, you have to do field work..trial and error...no text in this thread will help you with that..may give you some basic guidelines or whatever, but you just have to work at it in the field....

 

[Rint]

Thanks guys. People say i have a head start cause i'm 15, but there are so many other players who are 15 who will be way better when i become a DJ so thats kinda why i wanna hurry it up.

 

[Rint]

Hey KillaPeteHog How do you hang with the playas? I know all of them, and i'm friends with them, but i dont know how to become good friends with them and hang out with them. Got any advice?

 

[Tau]

Don't focus on being just a player. To fix all those problems you just need to improve yourself overall (which will indirectly help you be a player anyways)

Honestly, you've got a long road ahead of you. You're not going to fix all these things overnight.

 

[diablo]

Moved to AE...