"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i need help figuring out what i want

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alright guys, heres a little background to my problem. I've been dating a girl who i consider to be pretty cute, and has the best personality i could ask for.

Anyway, last night on our date, she spilled her guts to me and told me how much she likes me and basically said some really sweet things that make you wanna go "aww". I really like her too.

Now, what's happening is, somehow i got this drop dead gorgeous girl's number today. I think the only reason i got it is because im having feelings for somebody else and i just talked to this new girl as if i didn't care what she thought of me (she works at the restaurant i was eating at). she ended up giving me her number without me even asking for it. Now this girl is stunningly beautiful, and i don't know if i have the willpower to stay loyal to the sweet girl. I don't know what I want.

I feel like I'd be doing something wrong if i chose the slightly better looking one, because i feel like i'd be making this decision purely on looks, and I think I'd have a guilt trip about it.

The reason this decision is so tough, is because i just asked the sweet girl to be my gf 2 days ago. and she's like one of the nicest girls i ever met and i'd feel horrible to hurt her. Somebody talk some sense into me and give me insight. by the way, I am a relationship person, but i do have standards looks wise, both girls meet my standards, just one is way hotter.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Oh man... You're seriously going to learn a lesson from this.... I would stay with the sweet girl.... unless shes ugly... I mean... All you did was get a phone number, it doesnt mean anything, you're all ready acting as if the other girl wants to be your girl friend and your trying to decide between the two.

So why dont you go out with the other one while being with the sweet one? I wouldnt get my hopes up with the drop dead gorgeos girl.. she prolly just wants attention or something new in her life to play around with.
 
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DonDan said:
Oh man... You're seriously going to learn a lesson from this.... I would stay with the sweet girl.... unless shes ugly... I mean... All you did was get a phone number, it doesnt mean anything, you're all ready acting as if the other girl wants to be your girl friend and your trying to decide between the two.

So why dont you go out with the other one while being with the sweet one? I wouldnt get my hopes up with the drop dead gorgeos girl.. she prolly just wants attention or something new in her life to play around with.
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no, because i called her and she asked what i was doing. I said "sitting here like a loser while all my friends are out with their girls, how about you greaseball?". (I called her greaseball cause she works at a pizza place). She laughed and said she can be my girlfriend when that happens again. dam. then i teased her and said I'm not that easy of a catch. I wish i could control myself.

And no the other girl is also good looking, she also meets my standards. It's just this other one is like WOW.
 
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cute kills hot any day unless your looking for a short term bang. i made the mistake of dumping the cutest chick back in grade 10 for a HB and this hot chick was all games, her jokes sucked and she whined about everything. the cute chick had a line up of guys asking her out cause she was really something. dam that sucked
 
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