"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I need help dancing, please help me.

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Does someone know a site that king of helps you learn to dance? I know someone posted a site that teaches you to dance a while ago... I wish I had saved that. Please post some links to sites that help/teach you to dance. Thank you in advance!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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if your dancing at a high school dance the only dance you really need to know how to do is the grind. Last Thursday I went to a school dance, having never danced before, and two minutes into it I was grinding with a girl. There really isn't anything to doing it. The hard part is getting up the confidence to go to a dance and then getting in the mass of people dancing and grabing a girl to grind.

if you really need to read how to do it search the bible, there is a post on how to do it in there somewhere.
 

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What kind of dancing do you want to learn? If you wanna tango, I suggest taking a class. But if you just wanna go to a highschool dance and jump around, there's not much to it. In fact, I just went to a dance a couple of days ago. For the previous years, every dance I went to ended up being a dissappointment, since I was nothing more than a wallflower. The reason was that I was so self-conscious at the fact that I may look stupid.

But that was before I found this site. At the last dance, everything was different. If you feel confident, your moves will look so. I never danced before at a disco, but this time I was the center of all attention, especially when i got up on one of those illuminated platforms, pushed everyone else off, and started stipdancing to the wild cheers from all the ladies, until the supervising teachers kicked me off :( :D
 

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i've never found a useful site. i picked it up watching others and practising myself

the most important thing is to move with the rhythm of the music. main body parts to use are your shoulders, arms, legs and hips. so there are many variations of dance moves you can pull off. i'd suggest getting a full sized mirror, put on some music (i can only dance well to dance music (trance, house); don't like the hiphop stuff) and start moving to the music.

it's hard to describe so if you're out at a disco, watch how other folk are dancing and try to copy them
 

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For grinding, learn to move with the beat and with her. Nothing like screwing up and not being able to move to a beat. Listen to song songs they usually play for dancing (rap, hip hop, techno.) Grab some songs from the net and put them on a cd. Listen to the beats, not the lyrics. Get a hoola hoop. Practice moving your hips to the beat.

Get some girls to help you too. A lot of girls I know don't mind helping someone dance (that's how I had to learn!) :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Look up beatboxing for a site. Someone gave a list of 15 sites for rap dancing stuff... movies and everything....

if it's just for school dances and stuff... no big deal. Just go have fun and you'll pick it up.

IF you really want to learn to dance. Look for dance clases in a phone book.

Tango is a good hot dancing. Otherwise feel free, some places have hip-hop classes too.
 
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