"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I need further help developing the correct mentality..

PRiSM92289

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I have all my external 'game' down, body language, conversation, ect. - all that I am pretty sure I understand. But I still don't have the mentality of a PUA/DJ/AlphaMale rooted down, will reading the bible fix that? (I just dled the offline version since Im going on vacation lol there is a lot of material there)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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See where all the tips, tricks and tactics get you if you don't have the esteem to go along with it? This screams of the importance of authenticity. Without knowing yourself and believing in who you are, you're nothing more than an actor playing a part.
 

Mission

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Don't use words such as "Alpha/DJ/PUA" yeah it may sound "cool" to label yourself that way, however you are definatly NOT alpha if you THINK you are alpha, being alpha is simply about doing your own thing and not giving a damn what other have to say about it basically.

--Mission
 
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