"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I need further help developing the correct mentality..

PRiSM92289

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I have all my external 'game' down, body language, conversation, ect. - all that I am pretty sure I understand. But I still don't have the mentality of a PUA/DJ/AlphaMale rooted down, will reading the bible fix that? (I just dled the offline version since Im going on vacation lol there is a lot of material there)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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See where all the tips, tricks and tactics get you if you don't have the esteem to go along with it? This screams of the importance of authenticity. Without knowing yourself and believing in who you are, you're nothing more than an actor playing a part.
 

Mission

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Don't use words such as "Alpha/DJ/PUA" yeah it may sound "cool" to label yourself that way, however you are definatly NOT alpha if you THINK you are alpha, being alpha is simply about doing your own thing and not giving a damn what other have to say about it basically.

--Mission
 
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