"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I need expirienced DJ's or anyone who knows how to deal with these preppy b1tches.

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How do you guys deal with the preppy girls? They are so fvcking rude and concieted. They think they're above everyone else and they respond like the real B1tches they are when you either smile and make eye contact with them, compliment them, or even try ****y + funny with them. On top of that if they "act" interested they play some really really stupid games. It's not the fact that they were interested to begin with. It was more like a tease from the start. The only time I had a preppy girl on my d1ck was when she saw me with other non preppy girls (she knew I was interested in her before) and it made the stupid b1tch jelous. After that I DJed her, everything worked like a charm and I managed to nail it after about a week later. I'm not one of the "popular" guys or a pretty boy which also makes it harder on me. Do you guys have ways of dealing with these snobby *****es? I asked all the naturals I know and the common response I get from them is either "Don't bother with those hoes. They're a waste of your time" or "Those b1tches are easy. They just take more work because they know every motherf*cker out there wants to hit that". What do you guys think? Any suggestions? And remember that they always think that they're "above you" without you ever even giving them a reason why. It's just part of their mindsets. Thanks for the help.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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My AFC friends and other people in genreral reply differently. They say things like "You'll never be able to get that. She's way out of your league man." Is there even a such thing as "out of your league" in the DJ universe?
 

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the chick i'm trying to mess with now is a preppy chick, i know what you mean with the games man. So many games that you think ****..is it worth it?
 
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Preppy hos (I like the sound of that) usually want popular guys (expecially athletes) or moneyed men! It is all about appearances and social standing.

If you don't have the looks then you better have something else for them to reassure them of their 'preppy' ho status!! Whatever you do maintain your dignity and Say "No" to preppy hos!!!
 

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Hey making them jealous seemed to work....

Also these girls get handed everything they want. Get to know one you want to nail, but unlike everyone else treat her like crap. For some reason the just derail and become fixated on you, ever notice why "bad boy" types do well with these kind of women. Puerto's better at putting the "bad boy" image into words, so if I missed something important please don't hesitate to explain.

-Grey Fox
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My advice is simple, STAY AWAY FROM THEM!

they're nothing but trouble. If you do go after them the best way to deal with one is to let her know whos the man from day 1. The only thing they respect is a tough guy that won't take crap from them.
 

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Speaking as an AFC-Rocker turned DJ-Prep(sorta), prep girls were always the target of my desire. They are all really hot, know they are hot, wear those damn tight pants and low cut shirts, and they just have this walk that drives most guys crazy.

Best way to deal with em, (forget all this, stay away from em, they are trouble, etc) is to take away their power.

Tell them your not falling for their **** and all the makeup and sexy cloths is all just a disguise. And when they act all "Im sooo better then you" just laugh. When she asks what your laughing at, tell her that you don't believe a word she says, and that she must be really insecure trying to impress everyone, conforming to TV style etc.

WARNING: Prep Chicks always have a LOT of drama, lies and backstabbing attached to them. (Further proof they are insecure.)
 

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Hey PRL! Whats up man? It's been a while since I've seen you around.

Speaking as an AFC-Rocker turned DJ-Prep(sorta), prep girls were always the target of my desire. They are all really hot, know they are hot, wear those damn tight pants and low cut shirts, and they just have this walk that drives most guys crazy.

Same here man. I know exactly what you mean.

Best way to deal with em, (forget all this, stay away from em, they are trouble, etc) is to take away their power.

Tell them your not falling for their **** and all the makeup and sexy cloths is all just a And when they act all "Im sooo better then you" just laugh. When she asks what your laughing at, tell her that you don't believe a word she says, and th

In other words they are dependant mainly on their looks? I kinda realized that from the start but also began to ignore it the more I get dragged into how hot they are.


WARNING: Prep Chicks always have a LOT of drama, lies and backstabbing attached to them. (Further proof they are insecure.)

yeah... many seem to be two-faced and backstabbers. Around this area where I live all the hot girls are preps. I'm stuck with these materialistic backstabbing wh0res for I don't know how long. :mad: Whatever.
 

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preppy chicks are fun and hot, whats not to like? so what if they have baggage you dont have to marry them. theyre not really a different species of human, as long as youre dressed well and shower frequently theyll treat u right
 

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How to deal with them?

Don't.

Puerto_Rican_Lover is right on the money. It's all about perceived status. Typically, those who pull them are the best arm candy they can get: really buff jock types or bad boys, who also have a lot of options, and can discard the b1tches at will. Which makes sense, 'cause those gals are arm candy, too. In this one case, it's best not to be an individual, but to conform to the jock or bad boy image to a "T."
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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