"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hi , I am new here , I am from Singapore and I want to get this part of my life(the dating game) handled down here. Still a virgin and I am 23 this year (sad). So i decided that I should do something about it. Anyway , do u guys purchased any e-books or seduction materials out there? Like Marius Panzarella, Deangelo,Tiffany Taylor or whatsoever. I noticed that they are expensive for me to buy as I am currently schooling and not working,but I really want to improve my game. I have purely no skill, experience in talking and approaching women or seducing them. I wanna get laid. I am a total noob in the dating scene. Is it possible is you guys can share the links of the e-books you purchase with me? Hit me with a PM. E-books , audio materials ,anything... I don't know how to start as i am feeling very lost right now. I envy those guys out there who seem to have a chick by their side all the time. I wanna improve.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't think you will need ebooks so much as you need to go out and get experience, come back and post what you cannot understand, get some feedback, ask three women what to make of the situation for varied perspective, and come back and post some more, try some things, see what happens, rinse and repeat.
 
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Maybe you just missed the post above you, since its only 3 centimeters long. But thats what you have to do along with reading the DJ bible. Nothing more.
 
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Without knowing anything at all, I can see where your coming from, but bombarding yourself with information now is the worst thing you can do. My advice to you is to go get some nice clothes (button down shirt, jeans and dress shoes will be fine at first), join a gym whether your already in shape or not (women find the fact that you work out sexy...no matter what) and start going to bars with the intent in the back of your mind to meet a girl. It helps if you can just go there and start talking to people. If you're really nervous, just start offering everyone cheers. Almost everyone will take it and those who won't are not nice people anyway. By doing this, you'll probably be able to get out of your element a little. If you can't find the motivation, don't jerk off the day or night before you go out to give you a boost in sex drive.

That's my advice for now.

Lush.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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read all of the dj bible first... then a week later re-read it. then go do the bootcamp.
 
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since ur in school. when the new tearm starts back up join all the asian clubs that u can and try to do a sport or something. start studying in public places and not your room.

umm.. since ur a foreign student(am i correct?) u will need a job which will be hard to get but look for restaurant jobs....busing tables, servers, anything under the table. you need money to go on dates if u plan to ever.
 
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kengarou said:
Hi , I am new here , I am from Singapore and I want to get this part of my life(the dating game) handled down here. Still a virgin and I am 23 this year (sad). So i decided that I should do something about it. Anyway , do u guys purchased any e-books or seduction materials out there? Like Marius Panzarella, Deangelo,Tiffany Taylor or whatsoever. I noticed that they are expensive for me to buy as I am currently schooling and not working,but I really want to improve my game. I have purely no skill, experience in talking and approaching women or seducing them. I wanna get laid. I am a total noob in the dating scene. Is it possible is you guys can share the links of the e-books you purchase with me? Hit me with a PM. E-books , audio materials ,anything... I don't know how to start as i am feeling very lost right now. I envy those guys out there who seem to have a chick by their side all the time. I wanna improve.
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