"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I need an explanation. wtf??

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So I meet this Hindu 8 at a club a while back

I play it cool on the phone being a jerk and all that

then last week she tells me she wants to kick it

so we're s'possed to kick it Friday night and she calls me and tells me she's too tired to go anywhere and I know for a fact that this girl ain't no LTR material

she tells me she needs a massage and blah blah blah

I tell her to come over

she tells me that she needs to take a shower and change

then I call her an hour later and she ain't picking up

I still haven't talked to her but I don't really care .....anyways

what the heck happened???

should I call her???

opinions???
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She had a better offer.................

call her a week lather..............
 
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Originally posted by escobar04
I play it cool on the phone being a jerk and all that
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haha this made me laugh, its understandable to think this i mean thats what every one says you should do inst it? well NO you should not act a jekr i have wirrten posts emphasizing this before, its a bad idea and the only reason you might see women likeing them is due to their confidence, if you are confident with out being a jerk you will do even better.
 
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I mean I got her talking to me in general by being the way I am

i wasn't a jerk on the phone last Friday

but I still wonder what the heck happened
 
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