"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I need an explanation. wtf??

escobar04

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So I meet this Hindu 8 at a club a while back

I play it cool on the phone being a jerk and all that

then last week she tells me she wants to kick it

so we're s'possed to kick it Friday night and she calls me and tells me she's too tired to go anywhere and I know for a fact that this girl ain't no LTR material

she tells me she needs a massage and blah blah blah

I tell her to come over

she tells me that she needs to take a shower and change

then I call her an hour later and she ain't picking up

I still haven't talked to her but I don't really care .....anyways

what the heck happened???

should I call her???

opinions???
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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spider_007

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She had a better offer.................

call her a week lather..............
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by escobar04
I play it cool on the phone being a jerk and all that
haha this made me laugh, its understandable to think this i mean thats what every one says you should do inst it? well NO you should not act a jekr i have wirrten posts emphasizing this before, its a bad idea and the only reason you might see women likeing them is due to their confidence, if you are confident with out being a jerk you will do even better.
 

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I mean I got her talking to me in general by being the way I am

i wasn't a jerk on the phone last Friday

but I still wonder what the heck happened
 
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