"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I need an explanation. wtf??

escobar04

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So I meet this Hindu 8 at a club a while back

I play it cool on the phone being a jerk and all that

then last week she tells me she wants to kick it

so we're s'possed to kick it Friday night and she calls me and tells me she's too tired to go anywhere and I know for a fact that this girl ain't no LTR material

she tells me she needs a massage and blah blah blah

I tell her to come over

she tells me that she needs to take a shower and change

then I call her an hour later and she ain't picking up

I still haven't talked to her but I don't really care .....anyways

what the heck happened???

should I call her???

opinions???
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She had a better offer.................

call her a week lather..............
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by escobar04
I play it cool on the phone being a jerk and all that
haha this made me laugh, its understandable to think this i mean thats what every one says you should do inst it? well NO you should not act a jekr i have wirrten posts emphasizing this before, its a bad idea and the only reason you might see women likeing them is due to their confidence, if you are confident with out being a jerk you will do even better.
 

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I mean I got her talking to me in general by being the way I am

i wasn't a jerk on the phone last Friday

but I still wonder what the heck happened
 
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