"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I need a mentor or something

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Like a tutor for this. I need someone I can PM about my problems and has some good knowledge of the game because I really want to improve.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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no one will be your emotional tampon:D :rolleyes:

J/K I am sure that someone will raise to the occasion it just ain't me
 
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Man, if you don't wanna help a dude out why the hell you replying to this to begin with?

I appreciate any help truly. I'm going through some down and blue times and I just need a friend, somebody to understand me, to help me out. I don't know about the rest of y'all but I want to improve. I've been improving, and i've been struggling.
 
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Originally posted by That_Guy49
Man, if you don't wanna help a dude out why the hell you replying to this to begin with?

I appreciate any help truly. I'm going through some down and blue times and I just need a friend, somebody to understand me, to help me out. I don't know about the rest of y'all but I want to improve. I've been improving, and i've been struggling.
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That's the right attitude to have.

However no one is going to hold your hand every step of the way. What I meant was to come up with more specific questions and ask questions that we can answer. Everyone is very helpful here and would have no problem helping you. But you need to show us that you're willing to learn. Hence, reading the bible is a start in the right direction.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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man I was just joking around

learn to take a joke because that was what I meant it as. If I see a post that I can crack a joke in I will go for it. Just relax because if I see a post of yours that I can give advice in I will give it, if not I won't:rolleyes:.

yes I do agree that I went a little to far with my last comment. I have no problem with helping you out or anything just PM me if you need anything.

I am having a problem with anger and sticking up for yourself. If you keep that attitude going, you will go far. Truely no joke no sh!t nothing but the truth
you will go far. Good luck with your self-improvement :) .
 
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I'll help you out if want. I've got time since I'm stuck home on a saturday night due to some gay bs that I won't get into.


UNC Dave4 is the sn (aim)
 
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Like the above. I won't be an emotional tampon, but if your confused or something feel free to PM me. Best thing though would be to post your problems here to get different feedback from different types of people. But sometimes people flame or just don't respond. In that case feel free.

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Read the Bible before asking questions. That should help you out.
 
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I'll help you out if want. I've got time since I'm stuck home on a saturday night due to some gay bs that I won't get into.
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Your lucky, I just wasted my whole night at Indian Fest or whatever its called. Man I had a brat there. They ruined the thing.:( I don't know how but they did. Damn Indians, I mean who in Wisc. can ruin a brat... I think I have to go cry for them...:(
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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hmm, where was indian fest at? Just wondering because at my school we're the indians (menomonee falls), but i'm positive nothing was going on tonight. And i guess staying home tonight hasn't been that bad, Texas is winning! YES!
 
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dude thats ****ed up... I'm menomnee indian... like 10%..

Yeah I know menomnee. My grandparents have a cottage up thier. we go up thier and blow off fireworks, until all the jackass rich people started complaining. So now the cops come... even though they agree they look nice, some people jsut don't like them... ****ed part is... IT WAS 4TH OF JULY... What type of people call the cops on you for blowing off fireworks on the lake on the 4th...:mad:

Isn't the Menomnee H/S rivals with the Eskimos? or are you not in menomnee, MI...?

Anyway... The Indian Fest was down in Milwaukee. I'm southern Milwaukee Inbetween Chicago and Milw. In a place called Keno.

I think it was called Indian Summer. It was one of the ethnic SummerFests...

I like GermanFest, SummerFest, and IrishFest.

but free tickets what can you do?

Menomnee... hmm... where do you live. Thats a small town... whats the towns name south of you guys that has the big fire memorial... like a fire burnt down the whole town? Thats a fun little place...

You have a JetSki? where do you live in Menomnee... On the Lakeshore... do you know where the point where the trailor houses are?

I'd end the questions at that.
 
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oh... wait are you from Texas?
 
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Dude, you're killing me. Menomonee Falls is in Waukesha county. It's right to the north of milwaukee.
 
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Damn... lol... Oh yeah i've talked to you before...

Waukesha... okay..

Menomnee... that is a city in the lower UP though... Just confused me... that and I'm a little tired...

Yeah i just went to an ethnic fest.... Nothing too intresting...

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Do you go to school at North?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't go to UNC........yet, lol. But I love the tarheels even if the suck in FB, but I really wanna go there.
 
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id be glad to help u as well, but then if you post here (even better, search, your problem has always been encountered before) ull have even more people to help you.
 
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