"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I need a mentor or something

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Like a tutor for this. I need someone I can PM about my problems and has some good knowledge of the game because I really want to improve.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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no one will be your emotional tampon:D :rolleyes:

J/K I am sure that someone will raise to the occasion it just ain't me
 
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Man, if you don't wanna help a dude out why the hell you replying to this to begin with?

I appreciate any help truly. I'm going through some down and blue times and I just need a friend, somebody to understand me, to help me out. I don't know about the rest of y'all but I want to improve. I've been improving, and i've been struggling.
 
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Originally posted by That_Guy49
Man, if you don't wanna help a dude out why the hell you replying to this to begin with?

I appreciate any help truly. I'm going through some down and blue times and I just need a friend, somebody to understand me, to help me out. I don't know about the rest of y'all but I want to improve. I've been improving, and i've been struggling.
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That's the right attitude to have.

However no one is going to hold your hand every step of the way. What I meant was to come up with more specific questions and ask questions that we can answer. Everyone is very helpful here and would have no problem helping you. But you need to show us that you're willing to learn. Hence, reading the bible is a start in the right direction.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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man I was just joking around

learn to take a joke because that was what I meant it as. If I see a post that I can crack a joke in I will go for it. Just relax because if I see a post of yours that I can give advice in I will give it, if not I won't:rolleyes:.

yes I do agree that I went a little to far with my last comment. I have no problem with helping you out or anything just PM me if you need anything.

I am having a problem with anger and sticking up for yourself. If you keep that attitude going, you will go far. Truely no joke no sh!t nothing but the truth
you will go far. Good luck with your self-improvement :) .
 
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I'll help you out if want. I've got time since I'm stuck home on a saturday night due to some gay bs that I won't get into.


UNC Dave4 is the sn (aim)
 
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Like the above. I won't be an emotional tampon, but if your confused or something feel free to PM me. Best thing though would be to post your problems here to get different feedback from different types of people. But sometimes people flame or just don't respond. In that case feel free.

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Read the Bible before asking questions. That should help you out.
 
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I'll help you out if want. I've got time since I'm stuck home on a saturday night due to some gay bs that I won't get into.
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Your lucky, I just wasted my whole night at Indian Fest or whatever its called. Man I had a brat there. They ruined the thing.:( I don't know how but they did. Damn Indians, I mean who in Wisc. can ruin a brat... I think I have to go cry for them...:(
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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hmm, where was indian fest at? Just wondering because at my school we're the indians (menomonee falls), but i'm positive nothing was going on tonight. And i guess staying home tonight hasn't been that bad, Texas is winning! YES!
 
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dude thats ****ed up... I'm menomnee indian... like 10%..

Yeah I know menomnee. My grandparents have a cottage up thier. we go up thier and blow off fireworks, until all the jackass rich people started complaining. So now the cops come... even though they agree they look nice, some people jsut don't like them... ****ed part is... IT WAS 4TH OF JULY... What type of people call the cops on you for blowing off fireworks on the lake on the 4th...:mad:

Isn't the Menomnee H/S rivals with the Eskimos? or are you not in menomnee, MI...?

Anyway... The Indian Fest was down in Milwaukee. I'm southern Milwaukee Inbetween Chicago and Milw. In a place called Keno.

I think it was called Indian Summer. It was one of the ethnic SummerFests...

I like GermanFest, SummerFest, and IrishFest.

but free tickets what can you do?

Menomnee... hmm... where do you live. Thats a small town... whats the towns name south of you guys that has the big fire memorial... like a fire burnt down the whole town? Thats a fun little place...

You have a JetSki? where do you live in Menomnee... On the Lakeshore... do you know where the point where the trailor houses are?

I'd end the questions at that.
 
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oh... wait are you from Texas?
 
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Dude, you're killing me. Menomonee Falls is in Waukesha county. It's right to the north of milwaukee.
 
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Damn... lol... Oh yeah i've talked to you before...

Waukesha... okay..

Menomnee... that is a city in the lower UP though... Just confused me... that and I'm a little tired...

Yeah i just went to an ethnic fest.... Nothing too intresting...

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Do you go to school at North?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't go to UNC........yet, lol. But I love the tarheels even if the suck in FB, but I really wanna go there.
 
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id be glad to help u as well, but then if you post here (even better, search, your problem has always been encountered before) ull have even more people to help you.
 
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