"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I need a major opinion from guys out there please..

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I see some guys are still monday morning quarterbacking

:rolleyes:

@ The OP, you 22, do yourself a favor, go to the store, get a new outfit, go out this weekend and live life

Peace
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Again folks I'm not talking about marriage. I'm not getting married at the age of 22. I'm saying by the time I'm ready, when I'm in my 30s or something and for some of the strangest or maybe not reason we met again.

Should her experience with other men be something to consider about or we're all human and we need to get some from time to time? Is it understandable?
 
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vagrant said:
Again folks I'm not talking about marriage. I'm not getting married at the age of 22. I'm saying by the time I'm ready, when I'm in my 30s or something and for some of the strangest or maybe not reason we met again.

Should her experience with other men be something to consider about or we're all human and we need to get some from time to time? Is it understandable?
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OP Do you have self-respect for yourself?
I want you to be honest with yourself OP, are you cool with her having boinked other men? to many it obviously doesn't like it.

If it was cool with you, you wouldn't keep bringing that up. Now here is the reality of life, when you break up with a woman she is gonna find another man or men, to fill her wants and needs, that's the reality of it. If you wanna go back to an old chick then you gonna have to be real with yourself and realize that another man was all up in it.

But a man of self-respect who doesn't have trust for the woman anymore moves on because he knows there are other options and he doesn't have to limit himself to a woman who he doesn't trust anymore

Peace
 
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Solomon said:
OP Do you have self-respect for yourself?
I want you to be honest with yourself OP, are you cool with her having boinked other men? to many it obviously doesn't like it.

If it was cool with you, you wouldn't keep bringing that up. Now here is the reality of life, when you break up with a woman she is gonna find another man or men, to fill her wants and needs, that's the reality of it. If you wanna go back to an old chick then you gonna have to be real with yourself and realize that another man was all up in it.

But a man of self-respect who doesn't have trust for the woman anymore moves on because he knows there are other options and he doesn't have to limit himself to a woman who he doesn't trust anymore

Peace
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Trust won't be an issue her. Just the fact that she's been with other guys. I mean it's not like I'm not going to tap other girls as$ too you know. Is it really a big deal that we broke up and we did our own thing and get back together if we just like each other more than anyone else that much?
 
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