"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I need a major opinion from guys out there please..

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I see some guys are still monday morning quarterbacking

:rolleyes:

@ The OP, you 22, do yourself a favor, go to the store, get a new outfit, go out this weekend and live life

Peace
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Again folks I'm not talking about marriage. I'm not getting married at the age of 22. I'm saying by the time I'm ready, when I'm in my 30s or something and for some of the strangest or maybe not reason we met again.

Should her experience with other men be something to consider about or we're all human and we need to get some from time to time? Is it understandable?
 

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vagrant said:
Again folks I'm not talking about marriage. I'm not getting married at the age of 22. I'm saying by the time I'm ready, when I'm in my 30s or something and for some of the strangest or maybe not reason we met again.

Should her experience with other men be something to consider about or we're all human and we need to get some from time to time? Is it understandable?

OP Do you have self-respect for yourself?
I want you to be honest with yourself OP, are you cool with her having boinked other men? to many it obviously doesn't like it.

If it was cool with you, you wouldn't keep bringing that up. Now here is the reality of life, when you break up with a woman she is gonna find another man or men, to fill her wants and needs, that's the reality of it. If you wanna go back to an old chick then you gonna have to be real with yourself and realize that another man was all up in it.

But a man of self-respect who doesn't have trust for the woman anymore moves on because he knows there are other options and he doesn't have to limit himself to a woman who he doesn't trust anymore

Peace
 

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Solomon said:
OP Do you have self-respect for yourself?
I want you to be honest with yourself OP, are you cool with her having boinked other men? to many it obviously doesn't like it.

If it was cool with you, you wouldn't keep bringing that up. Now here is the reality of life, when you break up with a woman she is gonna find another man or men, to fill her wants and needs, that's the reality of it. If you wanna go back to an old chick then you gonna have to be real with yourself and realize that another man was all up in it.

But a man of self-respect who doesn't have trust for the woman anymore moves on because he knows there are other options and he doesn't have to limit himself to a woman who he doesn't trust anymore

Peace
Trust won't be an issue her. Just the fact that she's been with other guys. I mean it's not like I'm not going to tap other girls as$ too you know. Is it really a big deal that we broke up and we did our own thing and get back together if we just like each other more than anyone else that much?
 
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