"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I need a little help please

B-Real

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I posted a few days ago about this girl whom I've been talking to. She blew me off on a date last week. She said she was busy all week and that maybe next week it would be better for her.

So its next week now and I'm not sure how to ask her again about going out without looking desperate. I'm trying to find time to hang out with her and I see her at school a little.

I really see things working out with this girl, but she is sorta playing games. Either that, or she just isn't interested.

Should I just ask her tonight (cause I'll see her in the morning in class) or wait till the morning.

I think if she makes up some excuse this time then its time for NEXT
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sexy_kuta

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i say dont ask yet. create some rapport. talk to her. flirt, get her interest going, a girl who is interested in you DOEsnt play games, games come when theres not enough interest to go through the air.
so fuk around with her mind. get her interest level higher, then tell her you're taking her out. simple is that
confidence my friend. **** desperate
 

Mr.Sexy

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Even your post is weak. The fact that she blows you off is a terrible sign. It is almost impossible to go back and change how she feels about you. Once somebody has formed an opinion on you it is virtually impossible to change that opinion.

My advice: Get a spine and start over with someone else. You really need to take control. It goes against your nature, but become demanding. Demand the world from people. You will be stunned at what you can get.
 
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