"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I need a little help please

B-Real

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I posted a few days ago about this girl whom I've been talking to. She blew me off on a date last week. She said she was busy all week and that maybe next week it would be better for her.

So its next week now and I'm not sure how to ask her again about going out without looking desperate. I'm trying to find time to hang out with her and I see her at school a little.

I really see things working out with this girl, but she is sorta playing games. Either that, or she just isn't interested.

Should I just ask her tonight (cause I'll see her in the morning in class) or wait till the morning.

I think if she makes up some excuse this time then its time for NEXT
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sexy_kuta

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i say dont ask yet. create some rapport. talk to her. flirt, get her interest going, a girl who is interested in you DOEsnt play games, games come when theres not enough interest to go through the air.
so fuk around with her mind. get her interest level higher, then tell her you're taking her out. simple is that
confidence my friend. **** desperate
 

Mr.Sexy

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Even your post is weak. The fact that she blows you off is a terrible sign. It is almost impossible to go back and change how she feels about you. Once somebody has formed an opinion on you it is virtually impossible to change that opinion.

My advice: Get a spine and start over with someone else. You really need to take control. It goes against your nature, but become demanding. Demand the world from people. You will be stunned at what you can get.
 
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