"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i need a gel that....

Sato21m

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laves my hair dry and spiky i dont like the wet look anymore so if anybody could give me the name and where i could get it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Dayr0n
laves my hair dry and spiky i dont like the wet look anymore so if anybody could give me the name and where i could get it.
Elmer's glue, not school glue, though. I'm dead serious, my sister's a punk. It washes out easily with shampoo, although most punks don't shampoo very often. Anyway, this is good for sharp hard spikes.
 

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MsThang! Hey girl, what's up with you?
 

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I've heard that glue does indeed work great but pretty damaging to your hair.

I have long hair, to spike my shiet I use "glue" from Got 2 Be. Then make it extra stiff with their hairspray. Yellow canisters and tubes. Should be easy to spot.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i used to use glue but that gel will make my hair wet and i want it to look dry
 

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Try Tigi Manipulator.
 

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use murrays pomade (grease) it'll work. :\ just uhm.. make sure your hairs short :) or else you'll pay some dear consenquences when showering
 

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Try "DirtyTrix" clay ($16 at most salons or grocery stores :rolleyes:), or "American Crew" fiber (about the same price). Both work very well, though be sure to warm it up in your hands before applying.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Re: Re: i need a gel that....

Originally posted by MsThang
Elmer's glue, not school glue, though. I'm dead serious, my sister's a punk. It washes out easily with shampoo, although most punks don't shampoo very often. Anyway, this is good for sharp hard spikes.
that sounds like it would flake like crazy

in the book that queer eye for the straight guy wrote, theres a whole section on different hair products, i dont have time to tell you what it says right now becuase im supposed to be doing homework, maybe later i can, or someone else can relate

its packed with good info, someone check it out
 

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Originally posted by Dayr0n
laves my hair dry and spiky i dont like the wet look anymore so if anybody could give me the name and where i could get it.
You can usually use any gel to get "dry" spiky simply by using a hair dryer instead of letting it air-dry. About any kind of hair product put in your hair when it's wet will leave you with the "wet look" unless you blow dry it.
 

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Seriously dude, I bought and tried a gel from walmart for like 2 bux for a big old thing of it called La Bella Super Spike, I have I huge thing of this stuff, no other gel has the hold that this crap has, it makes my spikes super stiff and when I go to bed at night my hair looks the same as when I left in the morn and just as stiff, this stuff rocks go to wally world and get it!!!!
 
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