Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Elmer's glue, not school glue, though. I'm dead serious, my sister's a punk. It washes out easily with shampoo, although most punks don't shampoo very often. Anyway, this is good for sharp hard spikes.Originally posted by Dayr0n
laves my hair dry and spiky i dont like the wet look anymore so if anybody could give me the name and where i could get it.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
that sounds like it would flake like crazyOriginally posted by MsThang
Elmer's glue, not school glue, though. I'm dead serious, my sister's a punk. It washes out easily with shampoo, although most punks don't shampoo very often. Anyway, this is good for sharp hard spikes.
You can usually use any gel to get "dry" spiky simply by using a hair dryer instead of letting it air-dry. About any kind of hair product put in your hair when it's wet will leave you with the "wet look" unless you blow dry it.Originally posted by Dayr0n
laves my hair dry and spiky i dont like the wet look anymore so if anybody could give me the name and where i could get it.