"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
i need a clubber/bar guide to pickin up chiks in a bar/club scene
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
chronic99uk
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episodes 3 and 4 are free from the comedychannel, nice to see this in action, gives a better perspective.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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My God, some of those guys are real suckers! I'm happy they got their looks on their side cause they'd have a lot of work on their hands if not... LITERLY. And i thought i sucked with women.DJDamage said:
Terminator was the king though, really liked his style. The ep with the guy on the boat and the ball playing brotha was definitely one of the best, though the first one wasn't bad either, but the "i'm so articulate' wanker kind of pulled down the whole episode. First he dances around like a fairy which is supposed to be funny, and then when the chicks don't laugh (and i don't see how they COULD) he gets all upset and insults the pack leader. Great move...
