"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
i need a clubber/bar guide to pickin up chiks in a bar/club scene
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
chronic99uk
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episodes 3 and 4 are free from the comedychannel, nice to see this in action, gives a better perspective.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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My God, some of those guys are real suckers! I'm happy they got their looks on their side cause they'd have a lot of work on their hands if not... LITERLY. And i thought i sucked with women.DJDamage said:
Terminator was the king though, really liked his style. The ep with the guy on the boat and the ball playing brotha was definitely one of the best, though the first one wasn't bad either, but the "i'm so articulate' wanker kind of pulled down the whole episode. First he dances around like a fairy which is supposed to be funny, and then when the chicks don't laugh (and i don't see how they COULD) he gets all upset and insults the pack leader. Great move...
