"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I might be in over my head.

Dannyrt34

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Hey guys, I got a date with this HB9.5 tonight. She's one of the most beautiful girls I've ever dated, I feel I'm in over my head, I'm kind of nervous because I really think my game needs improvement before I try to land a HB9.5. I read an article in the tips section, and heres a few paragraphs from the one section that made me think "Oh $hit, I don't think I'm ready for this."

There are those who say that a 9/10 is too much work and they are more comfortable with an easier-going 7 or 8 and I totally understand that. A lot of 9s and 10s are totally unsuitable for a LTR for example, and are best for non-exclusive fvck-buddys.

But there are also 9s & 10s who are not *****es, who long for a strong, trustworthy, decent man to love and cherish - but he must also satisfy her sexual need to be dominated and constantly challenged. Anything less just isn't enough.


How about some advice to calm myself down for the date? I'm not even sure where we're going yet, probably out to eat, since it's raining like a b!tch today.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Looking slighter better than the average chick isn't going to change anything.

Unless your ugly of course. :crackup:

She still has a *****.
 

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She's only a woman. If you wanna dumb it down some more, she's only a human being. Some human beings are attractive, some aren't. Instead of treating her like a princess, treat her like a human being and you'll do fine.
 

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'Beauty is just another sh!t test' - Style
 

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Ah that's my quote from this thread

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=946079#post946079

Another little tip is that if you have to mention her hotness, tease her about how she probably abuses that power all the time. It'll show that her tricks won't work on you, and that you can see things from her perspective.

Also remember the whole point of her beauty is to attract YOU, it's a natural thing and she wants to find you attractive in return. Just don't let her down by kissing her asss like all the other guys and have fun.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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