Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I might be in over my head.

Dannyrt34

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Hey guys, I got a date with this HB9.5 tonight. She's one of the most beautiful girls I've ever dated, I feel I'm in over my head, I'm kind of nervous because I really think my game needs improvement before I try to land a HB9.5. I read an article in the tips section, and heres a few paragraphs from the one section that made me think "Oh $hit, I don't think I'm ready for this."

There are those who say that a 9/10 is too much work and they are more comfortable with an easier-going 7 or 8 and I totally understand that. A lot of 9s and 10s are totally unsuitable for a LTR for example, and are best for non-exclusive fvck-buddys.

But there are also 9s & 10s who are not *****es, who long for a strong, trustworthy, decent man to love and cherish - but he must also satisfy her sexual need to be dominated and constantly challenged. Anything less just isn't enough.


How about some advice to calm myself down for the date? I'm not even sure where we're going yet, probably out to eat, since it's raining like a b!tch today.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bvbidd

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Looking slighter better than the average chick isn't going to change anything.

Unless your ugly of course. :crackup:

She still has a *****.
 

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She's only a woman. If you wanna dumb it down some more, she's only a human being. Some human beings are attractive, some aren't. Instead of treating her like a princess, treat her like a human being and you'll do fine.
 

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'Beauty is just another sh!t test' - Style
 

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Ah that's my quote from this thread

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=946079#post946079

Another little tip is that if you have to mention her hotness, tease her about how she probably abuses that power all the time. It'll show that her tricks won't work on you, and that you can see things from her perspective.

Also remember the whole point of her beauty is to attract YOU, it's a natural thing and she wants to find you attractive in return. Just don't let her down by kissing her asss like all the other guys and have fun.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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