"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I might be in over my head.

Dannyrt34

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Hey guys, I got a date with this HB9.5 tonight. She's one of the most beautiful girls I've ever dated, I feel I'm in over my head, I'm kind of nervous because I really think my game needs improvement before I try to land a HB9.5. I read an article in the tips section, and heres a few paragraphs from the one section that made me think "Oh $hit, I don't think I'm ready for this."

There are those who say that a 9/10 is too much work and they are more comfortable with an easier-going 7 or 8 and I totally understand that. A lot of 9s and 10s are totally unsuitable for a LTR for example, and are best for non-exclusive fvck-buddys.

But there are also 9s & 10s who are not *****es, who long for a strong, trustworthy, decent man to love and cherish - but he must also satisfy her sexual need to be dominated and constantly challenged. Anything less just isn't enough.


How about some advice to calm myself down for the date? I'm not even sure where we're going yet, probably out to eat, since it's raining like a b!tch today.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bvbidd

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Looking slighter better than the average chick isn't going to change anything.

Unless your ugly of course. :crackup:

She still has a *****.
 

Desdinova

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She's only a woman. If you wanna dumb it down some more, she's only a human being. Some human beings are attractive, some aren't. Instead of treating her like a princess, treat her like a human being and you'll do fine.
 

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'Beauty is just another sh!t test' - Style
 

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Ah that's my quote from this thread

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=946079#post946079

Another little tip is that if you have to mention her hotness, tease her about how she probably abuses that power all the time. It'll show that her tricks won't work on you, and that you can see things from her perspective.

Also remember the whole point of her beauty is to attract YOU, it's a natural thing and she wants to find you attractive in return. Just don't let her down by kissing her asss like all the other guys and have fun.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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