I met this older woman today now what?

[hispanicdude79]

Hey guys Today i was at the store buying some soap and she ask me if i liked using that soap, and i told yes i do. Anyways she was talking to me about soap bars and which ones think smell goon on a guy body to make a long story short she gave her number and i want to call her today. What do you think?

She is a black woman about 5'4 120lbs

 

[backbreaker]

you call her, you take her out on a date, you try to have sex with her.

No, what I would do thoguh, is bring her back to my house and make her play madden 2005, because I need some help on stopping the vikings and am tired of playing the computer all of the time. (seriously,... how DO You stop the vikings on that game?)

 

[Royal Elite]

If you are going to call her to set up a meeting for later in the week sometime, call her later tonight. If you are calling her to blather on the phone for hours like one of her girl friends call her tomorrow.

 

[hispanicdude79]

But this chick is a hottie She i tell her?

 

[Royal Elite]

Originally posted by hispanicdude79
But this chick is a hottie She i tell her?

Did she tell you you are a hottie? If not why would you be obligated to tell her that. You need to learn some sincere compliments if you are going to use them. If you do compliment her tell her she has great taste in picking out soap, but please man-up and dont use the "you are a hottie" compliment.

 

[hispanicdude79]

ok iam not that good with saying good stuff to them.

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by hispanicdude79
ok iam not that good with saying good stuff to them.

Apparently she's willing to overlook that, if she acted so interested in discussing soap of all things. It sounds like you've got this in the bag, the only thing you need to do now is not make any stupid mistakes like saying "Your eyes look just like my last girlfriend's... which I keep in a jar of formaldehyde in my freezer..." Read the DJB's sections on Conversation, Kino, and Attitude and you should be good to go.

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb

 

[Royal Elite]

The secret to good convo with anyone is paying attention. If you use all your powers to simply concentrate on what she is saying, you will be able to hold a nice convo. Most ppl be so far in their heads thinking what to say next they dont pay attention. The harder you focus the less you hear the voice in your head, just like when you watch a good movie. Just pay attention, when you do this convo will become really ez.

 

[hispanicdude79]

So you think i should let her do all the talking?

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by hispanicdude79
So you think i should let her do all the talking?

Once again, read the sections of the DJB that I've linked you to before asking any further questions... they are already answered for you in there... We aren't going to plan every single aspect of your date for you, but if you read and digest the information contained in the sections mentioned earlier, you'll be able to handle the date pretty well on your own.

 

[hispanicdude79]

Cool bean!

 

[Royal Elite]

Originally posted by hispanicdude79
So you think i should let her do all the talking?

When people tell you their secrets, hopes, and dreams, they are giving you a little piece of their soul. The more they tell you the more of their soul you own. If most guys get this they can own a woman after one convo. Talk less and listen more!

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by hispanicdude79
But this chick is a hottie She i tell her?

She knows.

 

[KnightRyder]

Originally posted by hispanicdude79
Hey guys Today i was at the store buying some soap and she ask me if i liked using that soap, and i told yes i do. Anyways she was talking to me about soap bars and which ones think smell goon on a guy body to make a long story short she gave her number and i want to call her today. What do you think?

She is a black woman about 5'4 120lbs

did she volunteer her number to you, or you had asked for it ?