"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I met a new girl!
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
and to be fair, you've got your answer right there: you'll hurt your ex the most by not thinking about her anymore. Women love attention and validation. Cut her off
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
WTF... Leave your baggage at the front porch and move on dude.
Why even try to waste energy on such a meaningless thing. The best "revenge" is that you feel good about yourself and have moved on with your life - regardless if she knows it or not.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
bat soup
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Why do you care how she feels?
By forgetting her and moving on.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
What about instead of wanting to "hurt" the ex, be good to yourself?