I met a girl..... ONLINE

[looking for answers]

Here's a rundown on my current situation, i appreciate any feedback.

I'd consider myself a decent looking guy, not always outgoing and i get rejected sometimes but also have been able to get different girls in the past. I've been doin the whole nightclub/dating scene for the last couple of years and altho its got me some interesting one night stands and a few relationships, none have gone anywhere and certainly none have left me fulfilled. So one sunday night back in december i'm bored and i stumble upon this girl who looks interesting on a site called faceparty. I decide to message her and the response is encouraging, we exchange email addresses and start chatting online.

Right away i notice how much we have in common and how similarly we see the world. The photos on her profile are also nice. Not astonishingly attractive but sorta cute all the same.

We talk more and enjoy our online chats.

Then into january and we both start to compliment eachother a lot more and like eachother a lot more. She confesses that she likes me and that she'd go out with me in real life for sure. I share the same sentiments. Basically she's my ideal girlfriend. And i know she's genuine. We've also talked on the phone and got on great. I suggested meeting and she said she'd love to.

I dont really know what the problem is.. i guess we are just both so into eachother that one of us is bound to be slightly disapointed in real life. Also, i'm a bit wary of suggesting meeting up again cos i already mentioned it and dont want to seem TOO keen. We only live about 20 miles apart and she's got into my university so she'll be going there in september. Basically, if all goes well she could be a long term thing if we just get on and like eachother in real life, i just dont know how to bring up and arrange the meeting up idea again without seeming too keen and into her... even though she's made it clear how she's really into me. Thanks

 

[Ice Cold]

i just dont know how to bring up and arrange the meeting up idea again without seeming too keen and into her...

You're afraid of rejection. Booo

You should be intrested in her. You should be into her. You should be keen

Set a date, time and activity. Kiss her the first time you see her.

It will set the tone for the rest of the relationship.

Never be ashamed of your own desires as a man.

 

[Slickster]

Originally posted by looking for answers
Basically she's my ideal girlfriend. And i know she's genuine. We've also talked on the phone and got on great.

Sorry man but me thinks you are jumping the gun a bit here.

Online/Telephone relationships aren't even close to "real life"

You don't want to "seem" desperate? You're meeting women on an internet site!

If that isn't the definition of desperate, I don't know what is.

You're worrying too much. Call her and ask her out. Keep your expectations under control. Forget about any relationship with this girl at first. Just go have some fun and see where it goes.

Peace.

 

[Jvesti]

She is really 300lbs those pics of hers are theifed from another profile

 

[OddTech]

Re: Re: I met a girl..... ONLINE

Originally posted by Slickster
Sorry man but me thinks you are jumping the gun a bit here.

Online/Telephone relationships aren't even close to "real life"

You don't want to "seem" desperate? You're meeting women on an internet site!

If that isn't the definition of desperate, I don't know what is.

You're worrying too much. Call her and ask her out. Keep your expectations under control. Forget about any relationship with this girl at first. Just go have some fun and see where it goes.

Peace.

From my experience, Slickster nail this one. You can't assume anything from the internet. It can be deceptive, causing you to much false hope.

 

[MVPlaya]

Originally posted by just_that_easy
Here's a rundown on my current situation, i appreciate any feedback.

I'd consider myself a decent looking guy, not always outgoing and i get rejected sometimes but also have been able to get different girls in the past. I've been doin the whole nightclub/dating scene for the last couple of years and altho its got me some interesting one night stands and a few relationships, none have gone anywhere and certainly none have left me fulfilled. So one sunday night back in december i'm bored and i stumble upon this girl who looks interesting on a site called faceparty. I decide to message her and the response is encouraging, we exchange email addresses and start chatting online.

Right away i notice how much we have in common and how similarly we see the world. The photos on her profile are also nice. Not astonishingly attractive but sorta cute all the same.

We talk more and enjoy our online chats.

Then into january and we both start to compliment eachother a lot more and like eachother a lot more. She confesses that she likes me and that she'd go out with me in real life for sure. I share the same sentiments. Basically she's my ideal girlfriend. And i know she's genuine. We've also talked on the phone and got on great. I suggested meeting and she said she'd love to.

I dont really know what the problem is.. i guess we are just both so into eachother that one of us is bound to be slightly disapointed in real life. Also, i'm a bit wary of suggesting meeting up again cos i already mentioned it and dont want to seem TOO keen. We only live about 20 miles apart and she's got into my university so she'll be going there in september. Basically, if all goes well she could be a long term thing if we just get on and like eachother in real life, i just dont know how to bring up and arrange the meeting up idea again without seeming too keen and into her... even though she's made it clear how she's really into me. Thanks

Hey there, just_that_easy

If any of you will be disappointed now you will be disappointed later too so that's a mute point, just meet, also, DJs ask chicas out. Just because you do does not imply a dependancy type of interest. But the fact that you talked to her a lot online probably gave her a clue. Go out, be cool, laid back, flirty, and heavy on the kino.