"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I messed up - how to break up with girl

Anpha

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Long story short:
- met girl on tinder
- she knew me through friends of friends
- we had two dates and on second date I closed and pushed sex
heres where i ****ed up
- she really liked me? and is now calling me her boyfriend after a couple dates
- i havn't told anyone about her, she's told some of her friends and such that she's got a boyfriend etc
- I havn't made it clear what we are, and she's always asking have I told anyone about her etc

I don't want a relationship with her, but want to keep her as a plate. We've smashed a couple times but she's going back to her home country in July. I pursued this chick cause I was quite lonely, and just wanted to get my **** wet. She's a 4/10. Do i have to burn this bridge or is there another way to end this? I feel as if she's invested a lot into me already and to do this I gotta man up and be an ******* to dump her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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CBear

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Long story short:
- met girl on tinder
- she knew me through friends of friends
- we had two dates and on second date I closed and pushed sex
heres where i ****ed up
- she really liked me? and is now calling me her boyfriend after a couple dates
- i havn't told anyone about her, she's told some of her friends and such that she's got a boyfriend etc
- I havn't made it clear what we are, and she's always asking have I told anyone about her etc

I don't want a relationship with her, but want to keep her as a plate. We've smashed a couple times but she's going back to her home country in July. I pursued this chick cause I was quite lonely, and just wanted to get my **** wet. She's a 4/10. Do i have to burn this bridge or is there another way to end this? I feel as if she's invested a lot into me already and to do this I gotta man up and be an ******* to dump her.
All I can say is stay away. Been with a couple who called me bf after like 2 dates and tell all their friends/family about me. They're unstable. Not even worth as a plate
 

MrWood

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go fvck another girl and tell her, take pics.. etc.
 
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