"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I messed up - how to break up with girl

Anpha

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Long story short:
- met girl on tinder
- she knew me through friends of friends
- we had two dates and on second date I closed and pushed sex
heres where i ****ed up
- she really liked me? and is now calling me her boyfriend after a couple dates
- i havn't told anyone about her, she's told some of her friends and such that she's got a boyfriend etc
- I havn't made it clear what we are, and she's always asking have I told anyone about her etc

I don't want a relationship with her, but want to keep her as a plate. We've smashed a couple times but she's going back to her home country in July. I pursued this chick cause I was quite lonely, and just wanted to get my **** wet. She's a 4/10. Do i have to burn this bridge or is there another way to end this? I feel as if she's invested a lot into me already and to do this I gotta man up and be an ******* to dump her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CBear

Senior Don Juan
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Long story short:
- met girl on tinder
- she knew me through friends of friends
- we had two dates and on second date I closed and pushed sex
heres where i ****ed up
- she really liked me? and is now calling me her boyfriend after a couple dates
- i havn't told anyone about her, she's told some of her friends and such that she's got a boyfriend etc
- I havn't made it clear what we are, and she's always asking have I told anyone about her etc

I don't want a relationship with her, but want to keep her as a plate. We've smashed a couple times but she's going back to her home country in July. I pursued this chick cause I was quite lonely, and just wanted to get my **** wet. She's a 4/10. Do i have to burn this bridge or is there another way to end this? I feel as if she's invested a lot into me already and to do this I gotta man up and be an ******* to dump her.
All I can say is stay away. Been with a couple who called me bf after like 2 dates and tell all their friends/family about me. They're unstable. Not even worth as a plate
 

MrWood

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go fvck another girl and tell her, take pics.. etc.
 
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