"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I messed up - how to break up with girl

Anpha

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Long story short:
- met girl on tinder
- she knew me through friends of friends
- we had two dates and on second date I closed and pushed sex
heres where i ****ed up
- she really liked me? and is now calling me her boyfriend after a couple dates
- i havn't told anyone about her, she's told some of her friends and such that she's got a boyfriend etc
- I havn't made it clear what we are, and she's always asking have I told anyone about her etc

I don't want a relationship with her, but want to keep her as a plate. We've smashed a couple times but she's going back to her home country in July. I pursued this chick cause I was quite lonely, and just wanted to get my **** wet. She's a 4/10. Do i have to burn this bridge or is there another way to end this? I feel as if she's invested a lot into me already and to do this I gotta man up and be an ******* to dump her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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CBear

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Long story short:
- met girl on tinder
- she knew me through friends of friends
- we had two dates and on second date I closed and pushed sex
heres where i ****ed up
- she really liked me? and is now calling me her boyfriend after a couple dates
- i havn't told anyone about her, she's told some of her friends and such that she's got a boyfriend etc
- I havn't made it clear what we are, and she's always asking have I told anyone about her etc

I don't want a relationship with her, but want to keep her as a plate. We've smashed a couple times but she's going back to her home country in July. I pursued this chick cause I was quite lonely, and just wanted to get my **** wet. She's a 4/10. Do i have to burn this bridge or is there another way to end this? I feel as if she's invested a lot into me already and to do this I gotta man up and be an ******* to dump her.
All I can say is stay away. Been with a couple who called me bf after like 2 dates and tell all their friends/family about me. They're unstable. Not even worth as a plate
 

MrWood

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go fvck another girl and tell her, take pics.. etc.
 
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