"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I messed up and need some advice

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Ok in the scheme of things i guess this isnt that big a deal but for me its bothering me. About 3 nights ago i was at the first round of the phillies playoff game. Went down with a bunch of my friends. After the game we went to a bar attatched to the stadium. Well needless to say we were drinking since about 10 that morning and it was now around 8pm. I was pretty well gone. I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 years, things are good and i do not want to screw them up. Well me and my one buddy who is married decided to break off from the rest of the guys. Me and him end up talking to 2 smoking older chicks and i end up getting pretty much isolated with this one very good looking blonde. This girl kept trying to get me to go back to her house, i did not go but instead, "once again" i was drunk i gave her my name and cell phone number. My biggest concern is while im with my girlfriend that this girl will call or text me. She has texted me 2 times since the game i did not reply. I completly deleted her name and number from my phone.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I guess i can do that for alittle bit until this all blows over. I didnt think of that but if she would bring up why my phone is off i can always say i didnt even notice it.
 
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Mine knocks the battery loose and turns itself off when I drop it, fwiw. You can always say, "oh I must have dropped it, it does that."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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