"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I messed up and need some advice

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Ok in the scheme of things i guess this isnt that big a deal but for me its bothering me. About 3 nights ago i was at the first round of the phillies playoff game. Went down with a bunch of my friends. After the game we went to a bar attatched to the stadium. Well needless to say we were drinking since about 10 that morning and it was now around 8pm. I was pretty well gone. I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 years, things are good and i do not want to screw them up. Well me and my one buddy who is married decided to break off from the rest of the guys. Me and him end up talking to 2 smoking older chicks and i end up getting pretty much isolated with this one very good looking blonde. This girl kept trying to get me to go back to her house, i did not go but instead, "once again" i was drunk i gave her my name and cell phone number. My biggest concern is while im with my girlfriend that this girl will call or text me. She has texted me 2 times since the game i did not reply. I completly deleted her name and number from my phone.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I guess i can do that for alittle bit until this all blows over. I didnt think of that but if she would bring up why my phone is off i can always say i didnt even notice it.
 
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Mine knocks the battery loose and turns itself off when I drop it, fwiw. You can always say, "oh I must have dropped it, it does that."
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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