"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I mean c'mon... How hard can it be too find a nice girl!

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Women will flatter you of you give them things because they want things as easy as possible. It's very rare that a woman has honor. They'll all feign that they have honor and claim they're not type of girl to take advantage all the while they're robbing you blind.

You should never spend that kind of money on a date because you feed their sense of entitlement and even if you are with the rare girl who might not take advantage you put her in an awkward position of her having to continue to see you so that she isn't viewed as a gold digger. It's a no win.

Save your cash and use it for things that help you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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if it were easy then we would all be married.
 

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logicallefty said:
If you think a girl is "nice" in 2014 all that means is that her shell still needs cracked. Crack her shell and she becomes normal girl.

Careful on the termination of the relationship, though. If she has a rep for being a "nice girl" and is really good at the front and everyone thinks she is "so nice" then she will be able to tell the whole world "He looked at me wrong and I just HAD to end it". The world will believe it too and think you are the biggest piece of sh|t because what kind of MONSTER could cause such a "nice girl" so much anguish? She is SO NICE, you must have REALLY been bad to her in how you looked at her wrong...
LOL A lot of truth in that post.
 

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Desdinova said:
She told me that when she was talking about life on the farm. She has no problems killing animals. If I go out and shoot myself some squirrels or a deer, she's not going to get all mushy about the animal's feelings. If anything, she'll probably be a better shot than me and help me hang the deer.
Nice one, that's a good find. I put it to my woman to come shooting with me but no dice. This is a woman who's scared of her own shadow and freaks out over night time noises so I thought she might like it. She's feminine, cooks, isn't fat and has no facebook so I'm not going to push it but it would be pretty cool to shoot together.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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