"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I mean c'mon... How hard can it be too find a nice girl!

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Women will flatter you of you give them things because they want things as easy as possible. It's very rare that a woman has honor. They'll all feign that they have honor and claim they're not type of girl to take advantage all the while they're robbing you blind.

You should never spend that kind of money on a date because you feed their sense of entitlement and even if you are with the rare girl who might not take advantage you put her in an awkward position of her having to continue to see you so that she isn't viewed as a gold digger. It's a no win.

Save your cash and use it for things that help you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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if it were easy then we would all be married.
 

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logicallefty said:
If you think a girl is "nice" in 2014 all that means is that her shell still needs cracked. Crack her shell and she becomes normal girl.

Careful on the termination of the relationship, though. If she has a rep for being a "nice girl" and is really good at the front and everyone thinks she is "so nice" then she will be able to tell the whole world "He looked at me wrong and I just HAD to end it". The world will believe it too and think you are the biggest piece of sh|t because what kind of MONSTER could cause such a "nice girl" so much anguish? She is SO NICE, you must have REALLY been bad to her in how you looked at her wrong...
LOL A lot of truth in that post.
 

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Desdinova said:
She told me that when she was talking about life on the farm. She has no problems killing animals. If I go out and shoot myself some squirrels or a deer, she's not going to get all mushy about the animal's feelings. If anything, she'll probably be a better shot than me and help me hang the deer.
Nice one, that's a good find. I put it to my woman to come shooting with me but no dice. This is a woman who's scared of her own shadow and freaks out over night time noises so I thought she might like it. She's feminine, cooks, isn't fat and has no facebook so I'm not going to push it but it would be pretty cool to shoot together.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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