"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I may sound naive but, today, I had a girl I know deliberately cross my path.

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I've known this girl who is 9 years younger than me, 33, for going on 3 years. She's very friendly, if not devout, a saint of God. I'm almost certain she's a virgin. She is quiet, but confident. She looks as though she would be a Good stay-at-home mom.

The story or problem is today I was going about my business at work, and she comes out of her business (almost as if, Planned) to bump into me, but I ignored her and let her walk in front of me, as she goes into her car. Her body language was of "I hope he says something to me." I could see her hesitate awkwardly before she got to her car.

She knows I make money. She hates me for not Chasing her, for the past 2 and a half years, the times we've spent with mutual friends, but rarely talked one on one. We talked face to face a month ago, and she was happy/excited to see me, even though I hadn't seen her in a few months.

I like/love her sister, who reminds me of my ex-oneitis, almost identical *think Reese Witherspoon personality. Her other older sister, eh, she's just different than both of them, and married last year. Her mom and dad are down-to-Earth, like farmers.

She's attractive to me, but just a little of the quiet/hard-to-get side. I hope that I see her tomorrow, but still do not know if she longs to be with me, or if she thinks about me, like tonight.

I think I'll ask her, next time I get the opportunity, "What are you, studying to be a nun?" She looks the chick from On the Waterfront, but with brown hair.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Is this **** for real?

Dude who cares what she is thinking about at night. If you want her show you are interested, stop playing these stupid games man you sound like a damn woman.

She is a shy girl, I know their type and love their type but they will not make the first move. You gotta go for it. OTherwise, keep mentally masturbating about her wanting you bro.
 

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Poonani Maker said:
I hope that I see her tomorrow, but still do not know if she longs to be with me, or if she thinks about me, like tonight.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Come to think of it, she likes Pride & Prejudice. Didn't see her today. Maybe I'll see her in church Sunday even though she hasn't attended my church for a couple of months. She probably saw me today but I definitely did not see her. Then this Other woman who works at a wedding store said she'd set me up with a blond she knows. That's my life at the moment, slow-going.
 
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