“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I may have a shot...need answers ASAP!

nismo-4

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I spoke to this hot chick after New year's break. We were hugging for a good lil' bit:) Next, one of my female classmates suggested that me and the hot chick go on a date. The hot chick playfully threw her umbrella down and started laughing with the chick , among other viewers that suggested we (Me and the hb) go out. In a manly, slow voice, I said "I agree."

One problem: There were about 7 other students (thankfully not all males) who were there when this was going on. Of course, I was frozen solid. I could not make another move, not with the extra viewers around. HELL NO! Worst case scenario; If I got turned down, I would have been ridiculed for a good while for even attempting!

Would it be better to wait until she's by herself or ask her even if there's a bunch of people around? Explain yourselves! God bless.
 

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nismo oh! the same nismo who is trying to break a have-a-boy-friend-shield ??
A good DJ said it yesterday. You must know that you don't mind the outcome. That's the secret... Go for it!
 

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Just talk to her when you guys are alone...
Flirt and TELL her to give you her number. :)
Do not ask!
 

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nismo-4 said:
Would it be better to wait until she's by herself or ask her even if there's a bunch of people around? Explain yourselves! God bless.
You wait until the next time you see her and tell her "What time are you going to meet me at X?"

You have to assume that she already wants to spend time with you.
 

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Your thinking is flawed.

Instead of "I may have a shot" you should be thinking "She may have a shot - if she doesn't mess it up by being a b*itch."

You have to treat all of this like its no big deal.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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