"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I may have a shot...need answers ASAP!

nismo-4

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I spoke to this hot chick after New year's break. We were hugging for a good lil' bit:) Next, one of my female classmates suggested that me and the hot chick go on a date. The hot chick playfully threw her umbrella down and started laughing with the chick , among other viewers that suggested we (Me and the hb) go out. In a manly, slow voice, I said "I agree."

One problem: There were about 7 other students (thankfully not all males) who were there when this was going on. Of course, I was frozen solid. I could not make another move, not with the extra viewers around. HELL NO! Worst case scenario; If I got turned down, I would have been ridiculed for a good while for even attempting!

Would it be better to wait until she's by herself or ask her even if there's a bunch of people around? Explain yourselves! God bless.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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nvictor

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nismo oh! the same nismo who is trying to break a have-a-boy-friend-shield ??
A good DJ said it yesterday. You must know that you don't mind the outcome. That's the secret... Go for it!
 

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Just talk to her when you guys are alone...
Flirt and TELL her to give you her number. :)
Do not ask!
 

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nismo-4 said:
Would it be better to wait until she's by herself or ask her even if there's a bunch of people around? Explain yourselves! God bless.
You wait until the next time you see her and tell her "What time are you going to meet me at X?"

You have to assume that she already wants to spend time with you.
 

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Your thinking is flawed.

Instead of "I may have a shot" you should be thinking "She may have a shot - if she doesn't mess it up by being a b*itch."

You have to treat all of this like its no big deal.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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