Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I may have a shot...need answers ASAP!

nismo-4

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I spoke to this hot chick after New year's break. We were hugging for a good lil' bit:) Next, one of my female classmates suggested that me and the hot chick go on a date. The hot chick playfully threw her umbrella down and started laughing with the chick , among other viewers that suggested we (Me and the hb) go out. In a manly, slow voice, I said "I agree."

One problem: There were about 7 other students (thankfully not all males) who were there when this was going on. Of course, I was frozen solid. I could not make another move, not with the extra viewers around. HELL NO! Worst case scenario; If I got turned down, I would have been ridiculed for a good while for even attempting!

Would it be better to wait until she's by herself or ask her even if there's a bunch of people around? Explain yourselves! God bless.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nvictor

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nismo oh! the same nismo who is trying to break a have-a-boy-friend-shield ??
A good DJ said it yesterday. You must know that you don't mind the outcome. That's the secret... Go for it!
 

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Just talk to her when you guys are alone...
Flirt and TELL her to give you her number. :)
Do not ask!
 

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nismo-4 said:
Would it be better to wait until she's by herself or ask her even if there's a bunch of people around? Explain yourselves! God bless.
You wait until the next time you see her and tell her "What time are you going to meet me at X?"

You have to assume that she already wants to spend time with you.
 

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Your thinking is flawed.

Instead of "I may have a shot" you should be thinking "She may have a shot - if she doesn't mess it up by being a b*itch."

You have to treat all of this like its no big deal.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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