"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I matched with a Christian woman

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She's very smiley and looks very natural in all her pictures.
I assume she's one of those wait until you're gonna marry before sex etc. Should I ask her about her Christian values, how much she values them etc. Or just assume she's AWALT?
The reason I'm asking is because I know she has the same nature as all other women.
But her religion tells her that she shouldn't behave like her nature tells her too, but in accordance with what the bible tell her.
Should I ask her about her Christian values and be good-faithed towards what she says?
Cause if she has Christian values, that's kinda rare these days and maybe a good thing?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She's very smiley and looks very natural in all her pictures.
I assume she's one of those wait until you're gonna marry before sex etc. Should I ask her about her Christian values, how much she values them etc. Or just assume she's AWALT?
The reason I'm asking is because I know she has the same nature as all other women.
But her religion tells her that she shouldn't behave like her nature tells her too, but in accordance with what the bible tell her.
Should I ask her about her Christian values and be good-faithed towards what she says?
Cause if she has Christian values, that's kinda rare these days and maybe a good thing?
Vibe with her, make her laugh when messaging. You’ll never know what type of gal you’re dealing with until you truly meet in person.

Give this one a shot. Never know, might have a unicorn in your hand.
 

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Vibe with her, make her laugh when messaging. You’ll never know what type of gal you’re dealing with until you truly meet in person.

Give this one a shot. Never know, might have a unicorn in your hand.
Good advice. I'll see how it goes. But the reason I'm a bit unsure is because I assume she's look for a Christian man aswell, and from what I understand most of the red pill advice goes against Christian way of living when it comes to dating.
 

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She's very smiley and looks very natural in all her pictures.
I assume she's one of those wait until you're gonna marry before sex etc. Should I ask her about her Christian values, how much she values them etc. Or just assume she's AWALT?
The reason I'm asking is because I know she has the same nature as all other women.
But her religion tells her that she shouldn't behave like her nature tells her too, but in accordance with what the bible tell her.
Should I ask her about her Christian values and be good-faithed towards what she says?
Cause if she has Christian values, that's kinda rare these days and maybe a good thing?
Two good friends of mine have been dating for a long time and have a great relationship. The guy is an atheist and the girl is a hardcore Christian from a Christian family. And apparently her family loves him and gets along great with him even though they know he's an atheist (he's very open about it). So who knows maybe it could work. But in general I think this does not work well the vast majority of the time.
 

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Asking her about her values is like asking a company's PR agent whether they have a commitment to treating their staff well, or asking a political spokesperson whether they have done anything good for their constituency. Of course they will tell you a diplomatic answer. You have to be more subtle and nonverbal about decoding who a person is than that.

By the way, if you want to live in a particular way because you have a conviction to do so - dont be stopped by "the red pill advice" you get from the internet, or other people in general. You will be told to "live life on your terms" in one breath, but in the other, you obviously arent doing that if you fill your brain uncritically with the black and white dictates of some possibly cluster B-spectrum internet personality. If you think a christian way of living would be good and youd want a woman who feels the same, then live like that. The red pill is supposed to be informative, like reading a geographic map, not prescriptive like following a medication.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She's very smiley and looks very natural in all her pictures.
I assume she's one of those wait until you're gonna marry before sex etc. Should I ask her about her Christian values, how much she values them etc. Or just assume she's AWALT?
The reason I'm asking is because I know she has the same nature as all other women.
But her religion tells her that she shouldn't behave like her nature tells her too, but in accordance with what the bible tell her.
Should I ask her about her Christian values and be good-faithed towards what she says?
Cause if she has Christian values, that's kinda rare these days and maybe a good thing?
Don't ask her about her faith or values. Take her out on a date just like you would with any other girl. Once you get to know her a little bit, then you will get the answer to your questions.

Don't let the Christian thing fool you though. I used to date a Christian girl when I was younger. She went to a Christian church and her dad was a deacon at the church. She loved to bang. Her favorite was gettting machine gunned from behind.
 

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She's very smiley and looks very natural in all her pictures.
I assume she's one of those wait until you're gonna marry before sex etc. Should I ask her about her Christian values, how much she values them etc. Or just assume she's AWALT?
The reason I'm asking is because I know she has the same nature as all other women.
But her religion tells her that she shouldn't behave like her nature tells her too, but in accordance with what the bible tell her.
Should I ask her about her Christian values and be good-faithed towards what she says?
Cause if she has Christian values, that's kinda rare these days and maybe a good thing?
Already mental masturbation. Most aren't waiting and it's a shtick typically after the CC. There's a odd girl who is legit but it's not the norm. It's an anomaly at best.obv pursue but don't treat lime a unicorn.
 

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You all were right, from our conversations I found her to be AWALT. She didn't care if I was Christian myself. Maybe it was mostly about virtue signaling. She was nice to talk to, but not like she was any different. I actually think that if you want to be in a relationship with Christian values, it's you task as a man to lead the relationship in that direction. As it's natural for the woman to follow. Just like the girl i matched with didn't mind if I was or wasn't a Christian. But ofc, if you do want to have a relationship based on christian values, finding a christian girl will make the prossess easier i guess.
 
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She's very smiley and looks very natural in all her pictures.
I assume she's one of those wait until you're gonna marry before sex etc. Should I ask her about her Christian values, how much she values them etc. Or just assume she's AWALT?
The reason I'm asking is because I know she has the same nature as all other women.
But her religion tells her that she shouldn't behave like her nature tells her too, but in accordance with what the bible tell her.
Should I ask her about her Christian values and be good-faithed towards what she says?
Cause if she has Christian values, that's kinda rare these days and maybe a good thing?
Yes, sure, just believe whatever she says.

What could possibly go wrong?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Bible is red pill.
I disagree. The New Testament teaches men to be emasculated. In one verse Jesus literally encourages males to literally neuter themselves. Tells us lusting after any woman is wrong, also says if someone hits you, turn the other cheek, and if someone steals from you, roll over like a doormat and give him more of your stuff. More like a book on how to be weak and pathetic if you ask me. I agree with Nietzsche's take on it. Was written by men too weak to do anything to change their lives, so they made being strong a "sin" and being weak a virtue. "Blessed are the meek", etc.
 

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I disagree. The New Testament teaches men to be emasculated. In one verse Jesus literally encourages males to literally neuter themselves. Tells us lusting after any woman is wrong, also says if someone hits you, turn the other cheek, and if someone steals from you, roll over like a doormat and give him more of your stuff. More like a book on how to be weak and pathetic if you ask me. I agree with Nietzsche's take on it. Was written by men too weak to do anything to change their lives, so they made being strong a "sin" and being weak a virtue. "Blessed are the meek", etc.
Yeah I agree. It's such a contrast to the old testament.
 
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