"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I made a big mistake asking out my co-worker last night
- Thread starter Kuwi
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Okay, now this is the last time I'm going to say this. Accept that you've been rejected and act like nothings changed.
If YOU make this awkward, It will be awkward.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
TheBaconator
Senior Don Juan
Who cares? You messed up with the text, but who cares what she thinks? Just act like you normally would around her and i'm sure she will do the same.Kuwi said:
And don't make up some BS about your sister texting her, that sounds very made up.
duke007
Master Don Juan
If anything she'll feel awkward! And she'll see you in a different light for being so cool about it.
This happened to me...I just played it cool and was my normal outgoing social self with everyone else. She went into her shell and avoided the group conversations. Guess who came out on top in the end?!
rushing dude 123
Master Don Juan
Don't piss in ur own pool lol
Okay:
1) you did nothing wrong (although I wouldn't recommend asking a girl out via texting but at least you did something)
2) forget about it, she rejected you now move on. It'll become easier as time passes so just act normal. Its ONLY going to BE awkward if your all nervous around her because of this. So dont' be.
3) Look on the positive side, it'll make you feel better. For instance, your one step closer to becoming a DJ
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Don't play any stupid kiddy games and claim that it wasn't you texting.
escaleraroyal
Master Don Juan
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u just teach yourself a good lesson. never mess up with a coworker.
Prodigy746
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If asking a girl over a text is one step closer to being a dj than i dont know anything about this. No girl is gonna accept some ***** that cant ask a girl out atleast over the phone.Triple T said:lol like others have said already...CALM DOWN.
Okay:
1) you did nothing wrong (although I wouldn't recommend asking a girl out via texting but at least you did something)
2) forget about it, she rejected you now move on. It'll become easier as time passes so just act normal. Its ONLY going to BE awkward if your all nervous around her because of this. So dont' be.
3) Look on the positive side, it'll make you feel better. For instance, your one step closer to becoming a DJ
Seriously grow some balls, be a man, and next time ask her in person or atleast over the phone. You are not confident and thats why she rejected you. Look at you trying to make one of the dumbast lies ever ...my sister texted you who would believe that?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.