"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"I love you"

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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From what I learned from this site, the man should never say it at all. It portrays a sense of neediness and stickiness to the partner, which is unattractive. Watch the movie "Hitch" to see what I am talking about.
 
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yes, i've heard that too.

but should you say it back?

and what if she hasn't said it yet. neither one of us have said it yet. its been 3 months so why hasn't she said it yet?

P.S - No i don't act this needy around women! :p
 
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girl_in_a_boy_forum said:
*shrugs* My boyfriend said it first and I didn't think it was AFC. There's nothing AFC about confidence in one's feelings and drive. Regardless of who says first, they shouldn't say it until they're certain that the feeling is mutual. Also, don't feel pressured to say it back.
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How do i know the feeling is mutual? from her...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Wait for the chick to say it first and then when you begin saying it just make sure you don't overdo it by going all AFC with love talk everyday and you should be alright.
 
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inzone50 said:
yes, i've heard that too.

but should you say it back?

and what if she hasn't said it yet. neither one of us have said it yet. its been 3 months so why hasn't she said it yet?

P.S - No i don't act this needy around women! :p
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Three months ain't much, dude!
 
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...seems to me, the time to say it, is when you're truly at the point where you just can't hold it in. ...and significantly longer than three months, too.
 
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IMO you should only utter those words when you've said it 1,000 times before nonverbally first, the both of you. If you're seriously going to go down that road you better be damned sure without a shadow of doubt or worry that it's what you both want though.

Anybody who uses this line to get into chicks pants on the other hand is just sad...or a skilled player using a developed tactic...it's hard to tell these days.
 
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