"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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okay...I know this has happened to just about everyone. You're not supposed to say the L word first and you're not supposed to say it as much as the girl. I know thats a basic DJ rule. This has happened to me several times and I'm not quite sure how to react. If a girl says I love you a little too soon, you all know what I mean, what do you say? How do you react?

Don't get me wrong I like these girls...some of them that way, some only as friends. How should react to each type? The ones I like that way, it still seems too soon for them to be saying that and the ones I don't like that way...well I don't like them that way you know? But I don't wanna hurt feelings cause I wanna keep them all as friends. Usually I just pretend like I don't hear em or change the subject real quick but its gonna catch up to me eventually. Especially cause they say it a lot.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rocko said:
i posted on socalseduction, was just wondering if they were saying it in all honesty?
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oh...they meant it! haha! at least a couple of em did. how do I know? she straight up offered to f.uck me! I just want to cuz ehh...she's only like a 6 max prolly more like a 5 so...I kinda got hella bored and horny one night and asked to see her tits and now she thinks you know?
 
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All depends bro; if you feel the relationship has gotten serious enough to the point where it should be said then maybe it should. I prefer to use it sparingly, though. Usually when a girl says something like that to me I just give her "I know babe" or a "You can say that again." When I do say it, I like to slip it in when she's least expecting it. A woman wants it to be special. Don't give it a weak I love you either. Look into her eyes, smile and say it.
 
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correction on that last post. I don't wanna f.uck with her! my bad
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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WC2 said:
All depends bro; if you feel the relationship has gotten serious enough to the point where it should be said then maybe it should. I prefer to use it sparingly, though. Usually when a girl says something like that to me I just give her "I know babe" or a "You can say that again." When I do say it, I like to slip it in when she's least expecting it. A woman wants it to be special. Don't give it a weak I love you either. Look into her eyes, smile and say it.
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see thats the thing. There's no relationship...I haven't even kissed most of em! and she's like infatuated with me. she's pretty much stalking me through myspace.
 
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