"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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okay...I know this has happened to just about everyone. You're not supposed to say the L word first and you're not supposed to say it as much as the girl. I know thats a basic DJ rule. This has happened to me several times and I'm not quite sure how to react. If a girl says I love you a little too soon, you all know what I mean, what do you say? How do you react?

Don't get me wrong I like these girls...some of them that way, some only as friends. How should react to each type? The ones I like that way, it still seems too soon for them to be saying that and the ones I don't like that way...well I don't like them that way you know? But I don't wanna hurt feelings cause I wanna keep them all as friends. Usually I just pretend like I don't hear em or change the subject real quick but its gonna catch up to me eventually. Especially cause they say it a lot.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rocko said:
i posted on socalseduction, was just wondering if they were saying it in all honesty?
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oh...they meant it! haha! at least a couple of em did. how do I know? she straight up offered to f.uck me! I just want to cuz ehh...she's only like a 6 max prolly more like a 5 so...I kinda got hella bored and horny one night and asked to see her tits and now she thinks you know?
 
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All depends bro; if you feel the relationship has gotten serious enough to the point where it should be said then maybe it should. I prefer to use it sparingly, though. Usually when a girl says something like that to me I just give her "I know babe" or a "You can say that again." When I do say it, I like to slip it in when she's least expecting it. A woman wants it to be special. Don't give it a weak I love you either. Look into her eyes, smile and say it.
 
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correction on that last post. I don't wanna f.uck with her! my bad
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WC2 said:
All depends bro; if you feel the relationship has gotten serious enough to the point where it should be said then maybe it should. I prefer to use it sparingly, though. Usually when a girl says something like that to me I just give her "I know babe" or a "You can say that again." When I do say it, I like to slip it in when she's least expecting it. A woman wants it to be special. Don't give it a weak I love you either. Look into her eyes, smile and say it.
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see thats the thing. There's no relationship...I haven't even kissed most of em! and she's like infatuated with me. she's pretty much stalking me through myspace.
 
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