"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"I love you" -what do you mean?

Unknownboy

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Hi there guys.
I'm new on this forum, and my name is Max.
I got a very annoying question and i hope you can help me.
I think i love a girl, witch i know here for about 7 years.
I belive im still in "friend zone" because she told me so a few years ago, and i haven't done anything, almost, to resolve this thing because I'm in a relationship with another girl for about 6 years.
A few monts ago she told me that she loves me.
The dialog was something like that:
Here: Max, i love you.
Me: i belive you love your boyfriend, not me.
She: i dont think so, i love you.

She doese 't want a relationship with me because she always reminds me that we are just friends.
So, my question is: what does she want from me?
Just my friendship?
Sory for my rusty english, i'm still learning.
Thank you guys for your time.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Audiophile

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You've been dating another girl for 6 years but you think you love this girl who you admit is friendzoning you? Dude, get your priorities straight! Focus on the girl you're actually with and don't bother with this one, she seems like she's just a tease who is manipulating you to keep you around.

If she really "loved" you and wanted you she'd make a move, not fvck with your emotions like that. Have you read the DJ bible? If not, start there and then ask for advice, most of this sort of stuff is covered.

http://www.sosuave.com/bible/bible.htm
 
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