"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"I love you" -what do you mean?

Unknownboy

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Hi there guys.
I'm new on this forum, and my name is Max.
I got a very annoying question and i hope you can help me.
I think i love a girl, witch i know here for about 7 years.
I belive im still in "friend zone" because she told me so a few years ago, and i haven't done anything, almost, to resolve this thing because I'm in a relationship with another girl for about 6 years.
A few monts ago she told me that she loves me.
The dialog was something like that:
Here: Max, i love you.
Me: i belive you love your boyfriend, not me.
She: i dont think so, i love you.

She doese 't want a relationship with me because she always reminds me that we are just friends.
So, my question is: what does she want from me?
Just my friendship?
Sory for my rusty english, i'm still learning.
Thank you guys for your time.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Audiophile

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You've been dating another girl for 6 years but you think you love this girl who you admit is friendzoning you? Dude, get your priorities straight! Focus on the girl you're actually with and don't bother with this one, she seems like she's just a tease who is manipulating you to keep you around.

If she really "loved" you and wanted you she'd make a move, not fvck with your emotions like that. Have you read the DJ bible? If not, start there and then ask for advice, most of this sort of stuff is covered.

http://www.sosuave.com/bible/bible.htm
 
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