"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"I love you" -what do you mean?

Unknownboy

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Hi there guys.
I'm new on this forum, and my name is Max.
I got a very annoying question and i hope you can help me.
I think i love a girl, witch i know here for about 7 years.
I belive im still in "friend zone" because she told me so a few years ago, and i haven't done anything, almost, to resolve this thing because I'm in a relationship with another girl for about 6 years.
A few monts ago she told me that she loves me.
The dialog was something like that:
Here: Max, i love you.
Me: i belive you love your boyfriend, not me.
She: i dont think so, i love you.

She doese 't want a relationship with me because she always reminds me that we are just friends.
So, my question is: what does she want from me?
Just my friendship?
Sory for my rusty english, i'm still learning.
Thank you guys for your time.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Audiophile

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You've been dating another girl for 6 years but you think you love this girl who you admit is friendzoning you? Dude, get your priorities straight! Focus on the girl you're actually with and don't bother with this one, she seems like she's just a tease who is manipulating you to keep you around.

If she really "loved" you and wanted you she'd make a move, not fvck with your emotions like that. Have you read the DJ bible? If not, start there and then ask for advice, most of this sort of stuff is covered.

http://www.sosuave.com/bible/bible.htm
 
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